February 15, 2004
Exhibitionisme...
On the Etiquette of Eye Contact During Oral Sex
In an Established, Committed Relationship
In many ways, this section should be redundant. The sexual behaviour of any couple is - in the vast majority of cases - established during the first eighteen to twenty hours they spend together in bed. So, as far as eye-contact is concerned, either one already does and will continue to do so or one never has and never will.
However in an attempt tp galvanize a post-spark relationship, one may start doing things in bed (or outside it) that are unprecedented. Offering oral sex may turn out to be one of these. Making eye-contact during oral sex might be another. Winking or making a comic "gagging expression", we would advise strongly against.
Zo schrijft Toby Litt in ??n van de korte verhalen die deze bundel vormen. Erg gelikte bundel wel, vol met droge, zwarte, Engelse humor. De inhoud is alterneerd tussen "Sex", "And other subjects". Voor de liefhebber. Ik raad 'm zonder meer aan als onderhoudend leesvoer.
Achteraf blijft er echter weinig hangen.
Wat muziek betreft, voor degenen die het Zweeds van Lisa's vorige post ontging, luister ook nog even naar Heartbeat van Jos? Gonzalez, een jonge singer-songwriter die op het moment in Gotenburg woont.
Posted by Chris at February 15, 2004 07:32 PM